Wednesday, 31 August 2016
Diarrhea
Friday, 26 August 2016
Visit to NuH
Talk about emergency for kids and most people immediately think of KKh. However, I keep hearing of long wAits there even in late hours of the night.. becox presumably, the whole nation's parents go there after GPs and PDs are not available..
About two weeks ago, my girl had an acute constipation episode where she was straining in pain n sweat for more than an hour. She has had a bit of a problem pooping since after 6 months old when brown rice cereal was added to her milk to fill her up. In the past, my grandma had manually cooked brown rice paste for us in place of milk. But now, it was the Nestle one we used.
Back to that night, granny, my hubby , maid and I tried to see where's her poo after an hour of sweat and crying, it was at her anus but it was too big and hard to come out. After Calling the GP who advised us to go KK, I decided to go NuH instead since it was closer. We live in Bukit Panjang, I guess either would take us about 15-20min in smooth traffic, but the queue at KK would be far longer. Given that I had not too good an episode during my 2nd pregnancy where I had an emergency admission into KKH, I was also less inclined towards KKH.
We spent about 2.5 hours at NUH that night, registration was fairly smooth. Told the triage about JE's ongoing flu and constipation. Saw the Dr who left JE rather traumatized especially after the medicinal liquid was dispensed up her butt by the nurse.
It was a good thing she wasn't toilet trained yet, and just pooped into her diapers. Else it would have been a mess. I brought a diaper and set of clothes just in case for the a&e trip, but the diaper wasn't enough. And thankfully, we got one more from the triage.
By the time we settled back into bed, it was past midnight. Thankfully Dr had given MC and I applied for urgent child sick leave the next day. Lactulose was prescribed to soften her stools over the next week before a follow-up appointment at NUH Children's Clinic.
On the appointment day, JE was in high spirits after I told her I was bringing her to sit the train. She had only taken the train once when we were waiting for our appointment at Yuguo baby massage and the queue was horrendous so we went to Paya Lebar for a walk in the mall.
It was abit more than an hour's trip on the bus, and transiting across two trains from Bukit Panjang to Kent Ridge. We arrived at 1144 for our 1145 appointment. Her razor eyes zoomed in on the play area but paranoid mummy forbade her to enter the playroom since it was presumably a sea of germs. After taking her weight, we were led to a quieter waiting area outside the Dr's room. I gave her old one baby puffs and vitamins I had packed.
It was a horrendous crying fit upon entering the Dr's room having been traumatized the week earlier at A&E. She was crying and reciting "Go outside ah..." Throughout the 45minutes of consultation where a pretty Dr asked about her history. I had forgotten how her constipation had started, and only realized I missed out some facts in the night when recounting the episode to my granny.
After collecting 2 more bottles of Lactulose, and appointment for a month's time, we went to meet my Sis who works at NUH ENT Clinic for lunch at Xinwang. JE feasted on the papaya fish soup beehoon I ordered, plus some of Yiyi 's mushroom pasta before my order arrived. Afyer lunch, we went to the ladies for a diaper change. It was then time for Yiyi to head back to work, but the little one clung onto her Yiyi like a koala and we bluffed her that her beloved Yiyi went to buy cakes. Yiyi then escaped back to work.
I brought her to buy a fruit tart at Deliverance home in consolation, and then cabbed home. jE fell asleep on the ride back but woke once I put her down. Arghh.... She only fell asleep out of exhaustion around 1630.. not before I nodded off while patting her to bed...
Hopefully the situation improves, with more water intake, along with vegetables and fruits. She only takes packaged purees rather than fresh fruits.. and spits out if I give too much spinach or any other vegetables. I wonder when will she freely eat everything offered...
Found a useful link for further reading: http://patient.info/health/constipation-in-children-leaflet
Tuesday, 2 August 2016
8m milestone (Aug)
Time flies.. JY is turning 9 months. I've had tough times, cox the boy is somehow hungrier, fiercer and stronger than his sister. He is increasingly vocal now, and will flip in the Yaolan swing if he's awake or if he doesn't want to sleep.. He's sitting on his own for quite a bit now, and will try walking when we hold him and inch forward, still doing the leopard crawl but now it's from the TV area all the way to the common toilet or bedroom. Agile lil one, he has been trying to pull himself up using the TV console drawers and coffee table. And knocked his head against the floor a couple of times. He also likes to climb against the folds of the back of the sofa and try grabbing the window grilles.. much as I try to baby-proof the house and be careful, I foresee heart-stopping moments to come and pray that the knocks would be light ones..
Thursday, 28 July 2016
Night feeds.. and panda parents
So.. JY is around 7.5 months old, n JE at 29 months. These couple of days, we struggle with an extremely feisty , hungry lil babe screaming at the top of his lungs if milk is not prepared fast enough every 2.5 hourly in the middle of the night.. he has awoken JE on a couple of occasions, and I'm thankful she has managed to sleep through his screams while hubby scramble to make milk amidst his groggy state. Initially, I used to latch once or twice and ask him up to make milk once or twice. Usually a night feed is about 3 hours apart alike day feeds. I will then do one diaper change and place him together on our bed or back in his playpen. however, he doesn't sleep as well in his playpen and wake more often, I wonder if he's colder there alone and wants to join the three of us on our Queen sized bed.
Lately, he will make all the milk while I soothe the noisy babe.. after the feed, he thankfully falls fast asleep again, until the next scream about 2.5 hours later. Once, we made the milk after he screamed, but he took a sip and went back to sleep. I brought in a cup to warm the milk, thinking that he may wake an hour later to drink, but the bottle went into our oats for breakfast instead when daylight came.
Once, he went back to sleep immediately, while I was sore at having to change diapers and JY was still making lil cries as he was disturbed when he wanted his Zzzs after milk. Although he woke again to help me when he heard me tear open the diapers, I threw the wet wipes on the bed a little and was abit angsty. Next morning, hubby asked why I was angry during the night change and I told him I was upset he went back to sleep immediately when I was sleepy as well after feeding. He said I could always ask him up if I needed help, and he would. He had thought that a change wasn't needed so dropped back on his pillow.
But after talking about it, I did find myself being silly about my earlier behavior. I am thankful that he's been so helpful during night feeds, although he only prepares the milk and snoozes while I sleepily feed JY. And he would help to hold the diaper or grab his legs while i wipe the lil butt. It's still quite an effort considering he's quite a heavy sleeper. And I always make him turn when he snores cox I'm a light sleeper..
I hope that all hubbies will endeavour to share night feed duties, it's tiring, but it's some form of bonding when we commiserate the next morning about the tiresome night.. it would hopefully only be for a year or so.. JE has stopped night feeds, but if disturbed enough, will still cry for milk.. I hope JY can learn to sleep through the night soon.. it been almost 3 years since I last did that. Then again, I may wake up in fear checking if the kids are breathing and sleeping well when the time comes..
What an irony...
Wednesday, 20 July 2016
My Taobao purchases for JE & JY
Labels: baby budget shopping, baby products, ezbuy.sg, Taobao
I use ezbuy.sg, a shopping concierge to shop my Taobao purchases after hearing from my Malay colleague who shopped wondrous stuff before I did. I have tried 2 - 3 times buying directly from Taobao and using thier shipping firms but as I order from various vendors, there were dozens of boxes sent in a huge gunny sack. I didn't like it. Ezbuy.sg collates my purchases and takes out most of the boxes, does inspection and delivery fees are quite reasonable. There are also multiple collection points around housing estates and MRT stations, highly convenient. I'm now on the 1 year Prime membership offering $2.99 flat shipping for eligible items to Singapore. One jewelry stand i bought was smashed, have yet to get a refund, but otherwise, it's been so far so good.
Sharing some kids' items from TB:
Girls' Shoes at $7![]() |
Learning Charts at $3![]() |
| Babies' Socks - $5 for set of 5 Socks 2 ![]() |
Bamboo PJs 1, PJs 2- $7 - $8 Very soft, great buy! ![]() |
| Girls' Clothes |
Foldable table and stool![]() |
Bibs![]() |
Finger puppet![]() |
Door Stopper![]() |
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Baby habits by the month
Baby-proofing tips
I find that JE always find ways to put herself in danger despite my best efforts to baby-proof the house. Initially my sofa was in the middle of the living room separating the TV area and dining area. She started climbing and sitting high on the top of the sofa. I had to re-align my sofa against the window, and she started holding against the window grilles and even stuck a leg out the grilles once! Despite smacking her legs, scolding, she occasionally still climbs to the top of the sofa and sits up there. GRrrr.. bracing and praying no serious falls to come..
Baby bump
Tuesday, 19 July 2016
Save while you shop, use diffmarts.com
Labels: baby budget shopping, diffmarts.com, grocery shopping
Do use it and share it around! Mummies need to save all the money they have.. I saw this convo about young mummies starting to buy lottery, hoping to strike something so that we can defray baby expenses.. At least I'm not the only one who started this unhealthy and occasional habit.. oh wells..












